{"id":597,"date":"2014-06-14T00:26:05","date_gmt":"2014-06-14T00:26:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/?p=597"},"modified":"2014-06-14T00:26:05","modified_gmt":"2014-06-14T00:26:05","slug":"cealalta-jumatate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/cealalta-jumatate\/","title":{"rendered":"Cealalt\u0103 jum\u0103tate"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">C\u00e2nd aud c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 \u00a0merg la notar ceva \u00een \u00a0mine se zb\u00e2rle\u0219te brusc. Un fel de revolt\u0103 \u00eempotriva birocra\u021biei amestecat\u0103 cu panica de a sta la coad\u0103 ore \u00een \u0219ir.Dar dac\u0103 \u201en-ai legalizare\u201d \u00eenseamn\u0103 sigur c\u0103 nu prea ai de ales. P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 omul trebuie s\u0103 fac\u0103 cam de toate \u00een via\u021ba lui chiar dac\u0103 multe nu \u00eei fac pl\u0103cere.Si mai ales trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenvete sa aiba rabdare.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0To\u021bi se bulucesc la cele dou\u0103 u\u0219i. Una luxoas\u0103 ,lucitoare,pe care scrie mare cu litere aurite \u201e NOTAR \u201d si alta tern\u0103 ,cu geam mat ,pe care e lipit\u0103 o \u021bidul\u0103 ie\u0219it\u0103 \u00een grab\u0103 de la calculator. \u201eSecretariat\u201d. \u00a0Adic\u0103 ,una e notarul \u00a0\u0219i alta,secretarul.Notarul inseamna doi la suta din tranzactie iar secretarul doi la suta din doi la suta. \u00a0Chiar daca sutele sunt la impartire,se inmultesc vertiginos. Numai la mine se-nmultesc cu zero. Judec\u00e2nd dup\u0103 mul\u021bimea adunat\u0103 ,tot ce mai am \u00a0pe agend\u0103 ast\u0103zi trebuie \u0219ters \u0219i trecut cu grij\u0103 pentru \u00a0m\u00e2ine. M\u0103 uit \u00een jur dup\u0103 vreun loc pe scaun \u0219i spre mirarea mea,chiar \u00eel g\u0103sesc. Nu \u00een\u021beleg de ce stau to\u021bi c\u0103lare peste u\u0219\u0103 ,dar \u00eemi aduc aminte c\u0103 locuim \u00een Rom\u00e2nia \u00a0unde cam totul e pe apucate. \u0218i dac\u0103 apuci s\u0103 intri peste r\u00e2nd \u00eei r\u00e2zi apoi \u00een nas victorios \u0219i \u00a0celuilalt. \u201e Tu ,dac\u0103 e\u0219ti mai fraier,nu ai dec\u00e2t s-a\u0219tep\u021bi !\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0L\u00e2ng\u0103 mine,un b\u0103rbat la fel de grizonat,st\u0103 r\u0103t\u0103cit pe undeva, prin g\u00e2ndurile sale,\u0219i nu e hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 cucereasc\u0103 reduta din\u0103untru.Privirea \u00a0\u00eei st\u0103 \u021beap\u0103n\u0103 \u0219i-un pic cam umezit\u0103 de amintirea unor clipe pierdute de demult.Dar dup\u0103 un timp destul de lung,m\u0103 sesizez\u0103:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0Dumneata,tot la notar?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0De fapt ,la secretariat,r\u0103spund cu bucuria omului dornic nespus de conversa\u021bie.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Ca s\u0103 mai treac\u0103 timpul.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0Aha\u2026 Eu,la notar\u2026 divortez de nevasta. De fapt,ea vrea s\u0103 divor\u021b\u0103m,spune pe-un ton destul de am\u0103r\u00e2t.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0\u00cemi pare r\u0103u s\u0103 aud asta ! Dar ce-ai f\u0103cut,ai c\u0103lcat cumva pe bec?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; Mi s-a p\u0103rut c\u0103 becul e neon si-am fost orbit de str\u0103lucirea lui.Povestea este un pic mai complicat\u0103\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0Uneori e bine s\u0103 spui cuiva ce ai pe suflet,eliberezi din tensiune. Si dac\u0103 spui unui str\u0103in e si mai bine fiindc\u0103 va judeca obiectiv,\u00eencerc eu s\u0103 for\u021bez nota sim\u021b\u0103nd c\u0103 omul nu vrea s\u0103 depene povestea.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0 Seaman\u0103 foarte putin cu bancul \u0103la de demult. Un om \u00eei tot zicea consoartei dumisale: \u201e Ce bine era c\u00e2nd eram tineri,nu aveam bani,nici cas\u0103,nici ma\u0219in\u0103,dar m\u0103 culcam \u00een fiecare sear\u0103 l\u00e2ng\u0103 o blond\u0103 sexi de 25 de ani. Acum avem si cas\u0103 si masin\u0103 ,dar m\u0103 culc \u00a0l\u00e2ng\u0103 o b\u0103b\u0103ciune de 52 de ani. Cred c\u0103 avem o mare problem\u0103 ! \u201d La care nevasta \u00eei r\u0103spunde : \u201e Scumpul meu,tu viseaz\u0103 \u00een continuare la blonda sexi de 25 de ani c\u0103 m\u0103 ocup eu s\u0103 fii din nou ca-n prima \u00a0tinere\u021be. Si f\u0103r\u0103 cas\u0103 si f\u0103r\u0103 bani si chiar f\u0103r\u0103 masin\u0103\u2026\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Nu pot s\u0103-mi st\u0103p\u00e2nesc un zambet larg,\u00een col\u021bul gurii. De fapt,b\u0103rbatul \u00eemi este chiar simpatic. Pu\u021bini sunt cei care g\u0103sesc ceva de r\u00e2s atunci c\u00e2nd nu e absolut nimic de r\u00e2s.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0I-ai spus bancul \u0103sta \u0219i s-a sup\u0103rat at\u00e2t de tare?\u00eentreb nedumerit.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0Ei,nu numai de la asta\u2026 Dar s\u0103 o iau de la-nceput. M\u0103 apropiam \u00een goan\u0103 mare de 30 \u00a0\u0219i eram \u00eenc\u0103 holtei si iubitor de aventuri.Dar \u00eentr-o sear\u0103 ,mi-am g\u0103sit timp ca s\u0103 vorbesc un pic cu mine \u00eensumi.Mi-am spus c\u0103 ar fi timpul s\u0103 m\u0103-nsor. Tot alerg\u00e2nd din floare \u00een floare o s\u0103 m\u0103 ofilesc si n-o s\u0103 m\u0103 mai vrea nicio albin\u0103.Si-am fost de acord cu mine \u00eensumi. Le-am spus si la prietenii de pahar ce-am hot\u0103r\u00e2t iar ei la \u00eenceput au \u00eencercat s\u0103 m\u0103 conving\u0103 c\u0103 e total gresit.\u201eFaci aceea\u0219i gre\u0219eal\u0103 \u00a0ca majoritatea.Oamenii amestec\u0103 vinul cu ap\u0103,cafeaua cu zah\u0103r \u0219i dragostea cu c\u0103s\u0103toria . \u00a0C\u0103snicia e colivia \u00een care intri de bun\u0103 voie si nesilit de nimeni,dar \u00a0din care nu mai \u00a0iesi f\u0103r\u0103 bilet de voie. \u201d Dar eu m\u0103 s\u0103turasem de-at\u00e2ta libertate,vroiam pe cineva ca s\u0103-mi organizeze viata \u00een zilele urmatoare.. Nu fusesem niciodat\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gostit,mi se p\u0103rea chiar o t\u00e2mpenie fiindc\u0103 auzisem c\u0103 dragostea e foarte trec\u0103toare \u00a0si-ajungi destul de repede de unde ai plecat.Ba inca \u0219i putin mai d\u0103r\u00e2mat !Nu vroiam dec\u00e2t \u00eentelegere si bun\u0103 armonie. \u00a0\u00cemi spuneau al\u021bii de sufletul pereche,dar mie asta nu-mi convenea \u00a0nici pe departe ! Ce-nseamn\u0103 sufletul pereche? Adic\u0103 cineva care sa fac\u0103 si s\u0103 simt\u0103 aceleasi lucruri ca si tine?Atunci,ce naiba te-ar mai fascina?N-ar fi dec\u00e2t continu\u0103 monotonie ! Nevasta mea va fi cu totul diferit\u0103 si o s\u0103 aib\u0103 absolut tot ce nu am eu. Adic\u0103 cealalt\u0103 jum\u0103tate,nu copia fidel\u0103 !<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0 \u00a0Asa am hot\u0103r\u00e2t si dup\u0103 un timp,chiar am g\u0103sit-o. Am avut grij\u0103 s\u0103 nu fie nici ur\u00e2t\u0103 ca s\u0103 nu dau motive \u00een plus de r\u00e2s prietenilor ne\u00eencrez\u0103tori.Era cu totul si cu totul diferit\u0103.Ei \u00eei pl\u0103ceau telenovelele si mie filmele de actiune.Ea vroia muzic\u0103,eu stirile de sport. Ne-am luat deci,dou\u0103 televizoare. Ei \u00eei pl\u0103ceau lalelele si mie ,trandafirii rosii.Aveam deci,dou\u0103 vaze.Ei \u00eei pl\u0103cea la munte si mie,clar,la mare. Si dup\u0103 un an ne-am luat concedii separate. Nici oamenii nu ne pl\u0103ceau la fel . Mie \u00eemi pl\u0103ceau femeile ,iar ei mai mult b\u0103rba\u021bii.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; Cred c\u0103 era mai r\u0103u dac\u0103 era invers,m\u0103 bag \u00een vorb\u0103 ca s\u0103 m\u0103 aflu \u00een treab\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; Era a\u0219a si-a\u0219a! Ne \u00eent\u00e2lneam seara,schimbam c\u00e2teva vorbe si apoi ne culcam fericiti.Desigur,fiecare \u00een dormitorul lui.Dar era si o parte foarte bun\u0103,fiecare era liber s\u0103 fac\u0103 ce-si dorea.Colivia avea tot timpul portile deschise&#8230;.Si totul p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eentr-o var\u0103,c\u00eend am plecat la mare si ea ,bine\u00een\u021beles,la munte.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 St\u0103team \u00eentins pe plaja cu nisipul fin,admir\u00eend imensitatea albastr\u0103 de lini\u0219te si calm.C\u00e2nd la un moment dat, se aseaz\u0103 \u00een toat\u0103 splendoarea ei ,\u00eentinz\u00e2ndu-\u0219i rogojina pentru plaj\u0103,o tip\u0103 fain\u0103,cu p\u0103rul despletit. Nici foarte aproape s\u0103 nu-\u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 a iesit la ag\u0103tat ,dar nici asa departe,s\u0103-mi par\u0103 total indiferent\u0103.Adic\u0103 un fel de a te face c\u0103 te-mpiedici !Si am t\u0103cut o vreme ,dar p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 ,n-am mai rezistat:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; Nimic nu m\u0103 face mai fericit dec\u00e2t s\u0103 admir infinitatea m\u0103rii! M\u0103 linisteste, orice problem\u0103 as avea !<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0Ciudat ,si pe mine m\u0103 face s\u0103 m\u0103 simt la fel, a percutat \u00a0imediat,desf\u0103c\u00e2ndu-si cu delicate\u021be buzele \u00a0si dezv\u0103luindu-si din\u021bii de-un alb imaculat.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 Si-apoi,ne-am dat la vorbe.Si tot din vorbe am aflat c\u0103-i plac \u00a0sportul si filmele de actiune,iube\u0219te marea si \u2026trandafirii rosii Si am plecat \u00eentr-un t\u00e2rziu,\u021bin\u00e2ndu-ne de m\u00e2n\u0103 spre casa ei asezat\u0103 putin mai \u00eencolo,deasupra plajei si a m\u0103rii foarte albastre. A doua zi ,mi-am luat catrafusele de la hotel si m-am mutat la ea , fiindc\u0103 era spa\u021biu mai mult si dragostea pusese deja st\u0103p\u00e2nire peste mine.Adic\u0103 ceva \u00a0nou si \u00a0minunat ,destul de greu de explicat \u00een cuvinte.Dar dragostea nu are nevoie de logica cuvintelor.Ea trebuie doar tr\u0103it\u0103 !Stii despre ce vorbesc doar dac\u0103 ai fost vreodat\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gostit.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0De vreo c\u00e2teva ori,spun printre suspin\u0103turi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0Atunci esti mult mai norocos ! \u00cen sf\u00e2rsit am \u00een\u021beles ce-au vrut s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 unii cu sufletul pereche.Ne potriveam perfect,st\u0103team seara cuib\u0103riti unul \u00een altul,uit\u00eendu-ne la meci. Iar la fiecare mas\u0103 ne tineam de c\u00e2te-o m\u00e2n\u0103 iar cu cealalt\u0103 ne b\u0103gam unul altuia m\u00e2ncarea \u00a0\u00een gur\u0103,sorbind-o cu nesa\u021b.Si-apoi ne s\u0103rutam prelung\u2026Nici marea nu mai era la fel de-albastr\u0103 dac\u0103 ea nu era o clip\u0103 l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine. C\u00e2nd s-a terminat concediul,mi-am sunat nevasta s\u0103-i spun s\u0103 nu mai m\u0103 astepte. \u0218i am tinut-o asa cam vreo doi ani.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00centr-o sear\u0103 \u00eens\u0103,totul s-a destr\u0103mat. Am iesit la un bar din ora\u0219 fiindc\u0103 aveam poft\u0103 de-o bere mai rece dec\u00e2t c\u0103ldura de afar\u0103.Ea era de gard\u0103 la spital a\u0219a c\u0103 n-aveam chef s\u0103 stau singur \u00een cas\u0103. Si-n timp ce constatam cu triste\u021be c\u0103 berea nu mai are gulerul de dou\u0103 degete de altadata\u00a0 ci doar o dung\u0103 de creion, l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine se-aseaz\u0103 una cu ochii \u00een lacrimi si buza spart\u0103 de la vreun pumn puternic . \u201eEsti singur ,c\u0103 vreau s\u0103-ti povestesc ceva ?! \u201d Si-ncepe s\u0103-mi toarne o poveste cu un b\u0103rbat nenorocit care-o tot bate din gelozie exagerat\u0103 ,c\u0103 nu stie ce s\u0103 mai fac\u0103 si incotro s\u0103 fug\u0103,intr-un cuv\u00e2nt,c\u0103 e chiar disperat\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I-e fric\u0103 s\u0103 se mai duc\u0103 acas\u0103 fiindc\u0103 nebunul poate s-o omoare si n-are unde s\u0103 mai doarm\u0103. Iar eu,milos din fire, am dus-o la hotel.Si-acolo,nu stiu exact ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat,eram destul de beat si s\u00e2ngele \u00a0urca incet dar sigur, \u00a0peste tot. \u0218i mi-am adus \u00a0aminte c\u0103 in tinere\u021be nu refuzam o astfel de oferta.Nici ea n-a refuzat, ba mi-a \u0219i multumit fiindc\u0103 nu mai f\u0103cuse dragoste s\u0103lbatic\u0103 de \u00a0vreme indelungata. Sex nea\u0219teptat si chiar total neprotejat&#8230; \u0218i-am adormit cu ea \u00een brate.Aproape de diminea\u021b\u0103 m-am trezit de-a binelea iar mintea, mult mai limpede ,mi s-a umplut de remu\u0219c\u0103ri.Cum naiba am putut s\u0103 fac a\u0219a ceva?M-am \u00eembr\u0103cat si-am alergat \u00een goan\u0103 c\u0103tre cas\u0103.Cum \u00a0s\u0103 \u00eei spun ? Asta \u00eensemna bine\u00eenteles,sf\u00e2rsitul ! Dar pe de alt\u0103 parte nici nu puteam s\u0103 duc secretul \u00een t\u0103cere.. Dac\u0103 m\u0103 iubeste cu adev\u0103rat,o s\u0103-nteleag\u0103 si o s\u0103 trecem peste asta.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0 \u00a0C\u00e2nd u\u0219a s-a deschis eram probabil,p\u0103m\u00e2ntiu la fa\u021b\u0103. Dar nici ea nu era mai roz\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0Trebuie s\u0103-\u021bi spun neap\u0103rat ceva,am \u00eenceput eu spovedania.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0Si eu la fel ,a continuat l\u0103s\u00e2nd privirea \u00een p\u0103m\u00e2nt.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0P\u0103i \u00eencepe tu,i-am spus ca s\u0103 mai trag putin de timp si r\u0103suflare.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Si a-nceput.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0Exist\u0103 un coleg la spital care \u00eemi face de ceva vreme ochi dulci.Asear\u0103,nu stiu exact cum s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat si ne-am trezit unul peste altul,\u00een patul din camera de gard\u0103\u2026\u00cemi pare foarte r\u0103u ,te rog din suflet s\u0103 m\u0103 crezi !<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 Am simtit pe loc cum inima \u00eemi explodeaz\u0103 \u00een buc\u0103\u021bi. Nicio alt\u0103 durere pe care am sim\u021bit-o vreodat\u0103 nu se putea compara cu asta. Si furia cumplit\u0103 mi-a explodat \u00a0direct in gur\u0103:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0E\u0219ti o curv\u0103 nenorocit\u0103,asta esti! Nu mai am nimic s\u0103-\u021bi spun !<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0 Si am iesit direct pe u\u0219\u0103. Iar \u00a0de a doua zi, eram din nou acas\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; Unde,la nevast\u0103?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; Nu cred c\u0103 as fi suportat s\u0103 dau cu ochii de nevast\u0103.M-am mutat la casa p\u0103rinteasc\u0103.Acolo stau si acum .<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0&#8211; Nu stiu ce s\u0103-ti spun,noi b\u0103rba\u021bii c\u00e2nd gresim avem preten\u021bia s\u0103 ni se treac\u0103 cu vederea, dar femeia c\u00e2nd calc\u0103 putin str\u00e2mb ,chiar dac\u0103 dintr-o greseal\u0103,atunci o catalog\u0103m direct drept curv\u0103 ordinar\u0103. Judec\u00e2m gresit,cu unit\u0103\u021bi de m\u0103sur\u0103 diferite.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; Eu cred c\u0103 de fapt e vorba despre altceva,m\u0103 lumineaz\u0103 interlocutorul. Ea era sufletul meu pereche,avea toate calit\u0103\u021bile mele,\u00eei pl\u0103ceau lucrurile care-mi pl\u0103ceau si mie , dar avea si toate defectele mele. Si dac\u0103 eu n-am stat prea mult pe g\u00e2nduri ,probabil c\u0103 nici ea n-a socotit prea mult. Numai c\u0103 mie nu mi-a convenit.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0Si de unde \u0219tii c\u0103 ei i-ar fi convenit?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; P\u0103i tocmai asta spun,m-ar fi zgornit pe loc,f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 mai clipeasc\u0103.Acum divor\u021beaz\u0103 \u0219i nevasta fiindc\u0103 \u0219i-a g\u0103sit pe neasteptate, sufletul pereche.Si chiar m\u0103 bucur pentru ea.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; Ciudata poveste&#8230;Nici nu stiu ce sa mai cred,unii ar trage repede concluzia c\u0103 cine alearg\u0103 dup\u0103 mai mul\u021bi iepuri ,nu prinde exact niciunul.Dar povestea dumitale \u00a0e mult mai \u00eencurcat\u0103 si sincer,nu mai \u00een\u021beleg nimic. P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 ce so\u021bie e mai bun\u0103,una cu care nu ai prea multe lucruri \u00een comun sau alta cu care ai prea multe \u00een comun?Fiindc\u0103 niciuna nu e l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine !<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; Stai c\u0103 nu ti-am spus chiar tot. La vreo c\u00e2teva luni dup\u0103 ce-am ajuns acas\u0103 m\u0103 pomenesc \u00eentr-o diminea\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 sun\u0103 lung la u\u0219\u0103. Si c\u00e2nd deschid ,s\u0103 nu-mi vin\u0103 s\u0103 cred . Era Raluca,cea pe care-am dus-o la hotel. Gravid\u0103-n luna a saptea si cu privirea umplut\u0103 de fericire c\u0103 \u00een sf\u00e2rsit a dat de mine. Mi-a spus c\u0103 e al meu si dac\u0103 am vreo \u00eendoial\u0103 s\u0103 mergem la testul ADN.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u00a0Cum naiba ?? La asta chiar nu m-asteptam !!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; Da,exact asa cum spun&#8230;Acum am o feti\u021b\u0103 scump\u0103 ,care cam plange noaptea,dar dac\u0103 pl\u00e2nge inseamna c\u0103 e acolo si mie imi pare tare bine.Vezi dumneata cum e si via\u021ba asta,alergam dupa ceva sau cineva si nu intelegem c\u0103 de fapt totul e predestinat. Adic\u0103 ce ti-e scris,direct pe frunte iti st\u0103 scris.Dar noi suntem prea ocupati ca s\u0103 citim. . Exist\u0103 intr-adevar o soart\u0103 cu care unii se impac\u0103 iar altii mai putin.Iar \u0103stia din urm\u0103 sunt mai mereu neferici\u021bi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; \u0218i deci s\u0103 st\u0103m cu bra\u021bele \u00eencruci\u0219ate \u0219i s\u0103 \u00a0ne l\u0103s\u0103m a\u0219a,\u00een voia sor\u021bii?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; P\u0103i crezi c\u0103 ai de-ales??<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211; Da,cred c\u0103 avem destul de mult de-ales. Via\u021ba e o succesiune de alegeri pe care le facem la un moment dat. Alegem ceva \u0219i pe urm\u0103 ne \u00eentreb\u0103m dac\u0103 nu cumva era mai bine invers.Iar dac\u0103 alegeam invers,ne \u00eentrebam din nou cum ar fi fost dac\u0103 alegeam contrariul . Adic\u0103 contrariul la contrariu &#8230;\u0218i tot a\u0219a !<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">-P\u0103i vezi c\u0103-mi dai dreptate ? Ne inv\u00e2rtim si p\u00e2n\u0103 la urma ame\u021bim.Ce-\u021bi folosesc at\u00e2tea \u00eentreb\u0103ri,prime\u0219te fiecare zi ca pe un dar care \u021bi-a fost oferit,bucur\u0103-te de tot ce te-nconjoar\u0103 \u0219i mai ales&#8230; iube\u0219te f\u0103r\u0103 regrete ! Chiar \u0219i trandafirii ro\u0219ii cu toate c\u0103 au spini.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u0218i nu mai c\u0103uta at\u00e2tea pete-n soare !<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>C\u00e2nd aud c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 \u00a0merg la notar ceva \u00een \u00a0mine se zb\u00e2rle\u0219te brusc. 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