{"id":380,"date":"2014-04-07T20:08:47","date_gmt":"2014-04-07T20:08:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/?p=380"},"modified":"2014-04-07T20:08:47","modified_gmt":"2014-04-07T20:08:47","slug":"tatal-meu-nu-mai-e-cu-noi-plecat-la-domnul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/tatal-meu-nu-mai-e-cu-noi-plecat-la-domnul\/","title":{"rendered":"Tat\u0103l meu nu mai e cu noi, a plecat la Domnul"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Vestea a venit pe nea\u0219teptate. De la sora mea, Livia. Un r\u00e2nd scris \u00een grab\u0103, pe Internet, miercuri, 2 aprilie: \u201eTata a murit azi diminea\u021b\u0103 la 10:45\u201c. Doream s\u0103 ajung acas\u0103 pe 13 aprilie, cump\u0103rasem biletul de avion \u0219i speram s\u0103-l g\u0103sesc pe tata \u00een via\u021b\u0103. Sora mea \u00eei spusese c\u00e2nd ajung \u0219i tata a dat din cap, \u00een\u021beleg\u00e2nd c\u0103 voi veni s\u0103-l v\u0103d. Apoi a spus c\u0103 m\u0103 pup\u0103 \u0219i a intrat \u00een agonie.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Tat\u0103l meu ar fi putut tr\u0103i 100 de ani. Cuno\u0219tea secretele plantelor medicinal \u0219i trata oamenii cu ele chiar \u0219i bolnav fiind. Pentru boala lui nu exist\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 vreun leac. Colegii mei americani, care \u0219tiu ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 SLA (Scleroz\u0103 Lateral\u0103 Amiorofic\u0103),\u00a0 sunt chiar mira\u021bi c\u0103 a luptat \u0219i a rezistat 14 ani acestei boli necru\u021b\u0103toare. Tata \u00ee\u0219i prepara m\u00e2ncarea singur, spun\u00e2nd rug\u0103ciuni. \u00cen ultimele luni de via\u021b\u0103, dorin\u021ba lui de a tr\u0103i \u0219i de a ne vedea \u00een vacan\u021be, pe mine \u0219i pe cei doi copii ai mei, i-au \u021binut speran\u021ba vie. P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu a mai putut suporta durerea. Mama mi-a spus c\u0103 nu s-a pl\u00e2ns niciodat\u0103. Nu mai putea vorbi, dar scria pe un caiet. Nu mai putea merge, dar \u00ee\u0219i masa singur picioarele. \u00cencerca s\u0103-\u0219i \u021bin\u0103 mu\u0219chii activi, f\u0103c\u00e2nd zilnic c\u00e2te dou\u0103 ore de exerci\u021bii, diminea\u021ba \u0219i seara,\u00a0 pe ambele picioare. P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu a mai putut nici asta.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">M\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 nu cumva tat\u0103l meu a vrut s\u0103 plece la Domnul pentru a m\u0103 proteja. Cu 12 ani \u00een urm\u0103, mi-am condus propriul so\u021b pe ultimul drum, la numai c\u00e2teva luni dup\u0103 ce ne-am c\u0103s\u0103torit. Murise \u00eentr-un groaznic accident rutier \u0219i tata a \u0219tiut c\u0103 nu voi rezista s\u0103-l v\u0103d \u0219i pe el d\u00e2ndu-\u0219i ultima suflare. A \u00eencercat s\u0103 m\u0103 apere de durere \u0219I a avut grij\u0103 s\u0103 plece dintre noi \u00eenainte ca eu s\u0103 ajung acas\u0103, unde voi fi de Pa\u0219ti. Nu m\u0103 va mai a\u0219tepta \u00een camera lui, voi merge eu la el, s\u0103-i duc lumin\u0103, \u00een Noaptea \u00cenvierii. Nici doliul nu m\u0103 ajut\u0103 prea mult. \u00cel voi purta din tradi\u021bie, \u0219ase s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, c\u0103ci tata a fost un om pedant \u0219i dorea ca eu \u0219i sora mea s\u0103 ar\u0103t\u0103m \u00eengrijit. Chiar \u00een ultima lui zi de via\u021b\u0103, c\u00e2nd \u00eenc\u0103 era con\u0219tient \u0219i \u00een dureri, i-a f\u0103cut semn Liviei s\u0103-\u0219i aranjeze p\u0103rul. A\u0219a a fost tat\u0103l meu: mereu atent la \u00eenf\u0103\u021bi\u0219area noastr\u0103. Noi, fetele lui, \u201e\u00eengerii\u201c, cum ne numea el, vom avea grij\u0103 s\u0103-i respect\u0103m dorin\u021bele \u0219i s\u0103 fie fericit unde este acum.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Tata a iubit mult natura, florile \u0219i pomii fructiferi. A fost \u00eenmorm\u00e2ntat \u00eentr-o zi\u00a0 \u00eensorit\u0103. Florile \u0219i cire\u0219ii erau \u00eenflori\u021bi, iar parfumul lor discret plutea \u00een aer. Am sim\u021bit de aici mirosul lor suav. C\u00e2nd am ajuns acas\u0103, o vrabie m\u0103 a\u0219tepta pe teras\u0103. Am \u0219tiut c\u0103 e tata. M\u0103 saluta \u0219i \u00eemi ar\u0103ta c\u0103 va fi mereu cu mine. C\u0103 dac\u0103 nu a putut veni niciodat\u0103 \u00een America, a zburat de data asta pentru mine.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Dragostea de p\u0103rin\u021bi se poart\u0103 mereu \u00een suflet, dar desp\u0103r\u021birea e grea. Tata a plecat \u00eentr-o lume mai dreapt\u0103, cred, dar din sufletul meu nu va pleca niciodat\u0103. \u00cel voi sim\u021bi mereu aproape. A\u0219a cum a fost \u00eentotdeauna.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vestea a venit pe nea\u0219teptate. De la sora mea, Livia. 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