{"id":2329,"date":"2018-02-21T22:02:57","date_gmt":"2018-02-21T22:02:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/?p=2329"},"modified":"2018-02-21T22:03:57","modified_gmt":"2018-02-21T22:03:57","slug":"nig-de-vorba-cu-avocata-ioana-salajanuchicago","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/nig-de-vorba-cu-avocata-ioana-salajanuchicago\/","title":{"rendered":"NIG de vorb\u0103 cu avocata Ioana S\u0103l\u0103janu\/Chicago"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-15252 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.curentul.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/25594356_2019163825020157_2207413913554018700_n-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"25594356_2019163825020157_2207413913554018700_n\" width=\"532\" height=\"354\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">\u00cen 20 Martie 2018, dac\u0103 va ob\u021bine num\u0103rul necesar de voturi, Ioana Sal\u0103janu, o or\u0103deanc\u0103 din Chicago, are \u0219ansa s\u0103 devin\u0103 prima rom\u00e2nc\u0103 judec\u0103tor \u00een sistemul judiciar american.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Ioana a plecat din Rom\u00e2nia \u00een 1985 cu azil politic dup\u0103 ce tat\u0103l ei a fugit din \u021bar\u0103 \u00een &#8217;81.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Avea doar 9 ani. Nu a fost u\u0219or. Nici acas\u0103 dup\u0103 ce a devenit fiic\u0103 de tr\u0103d\u0103tor de \u021bar\u0103, nici \u00een Detroit unde a locuit p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd a ob\u021binut o burs\u0103 la Loyola Law School \u00een<\/span>\u00a0Chicago, dup\u0103 terminarea Facult\u0103\u021bii de Stiin\u021be Politice din Michigan.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u00a0,,Nu aveam bani, nu vorbeam englez\u0103 \u0219i o vreme am tr\u0103it pe ajutor social\u201d,\u00a0<\/i>\u00ee\u0219i aminte\u0219te Ioana despre \u00eenceputurile americane.\u00a0<span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Ast\u0103zi este avocat\u0103 \u00een Chicago \u0219i candideaz\u0103 pentru func\u021bia de judec\u0103tor \u00een districtul Cook.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Un membru al staffului ei m-a contactat \u00een decembrie trecut \u0219i povestea Ioanei S\u0103l\u0103janu m-a cucerit.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Mam\u0103 singur\u0103, trei b\u0103ie\u021bi, avocat\u0103. Plus campanie electoral\u0103 pentru c\u0103 judec\u0103tor devii prin votul popula\u021biei. Plus o funda\u021bie. Plus interviuri, evenimente pentru str\u00e2ngere de fonduri, c\u00e2ine \u0219i dou\u0103 pisici.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 toate acestea, jobul de judge pare floare la ureche, nu-i a\u0219a? A r\u00e2s c\u00e2nd i-am spus asta.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><i>,,Nu ai idee c\u00e2t de ocupat\u0103 sunt. Trebuie s\u0103 fiu foarte disciplinat\u0103 \u0219i foarte organizat\u0103\u201d\u00a0<\/i><\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Am reu\u0219it s\u0103 vorbesc cu Ioana \u00een dou\u0103 ocazii. \u00cen ambele ea a fost la volan.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">\u00centr-una din aceste ocazii am \u00eenregistrat discu\u021bia noastr\u0103 \u0219i am transcris-o pentru domniile voastre mai jos.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Nu o s\u0103-i spun interviu.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Este un dialog cu o femeie curajoas\u0103 \u0219i inteligent\u0103, o rom\u00e2nc\u0103, o imigrant\u0103 care ne spune c\u0103 se poate s\u0103 intri \u00eentr-un sistem care pare inaccesibil \u0219i impenetrabil, c\u0103 nu conteaz\u0103 de unde vii \u0219i cine e\u0219ti at\u00e2ta vreme c\u00e2t \u00ee\u021bi stabile\u0219ti un \u021bel pe care, cu d\u0103ruire, disciplin\u0103, \u00eencredere \u00een for\u021bele proprii \u0219i extrem de mult\u0103 munc\u0103, \u00eel po\u021bi atinge.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><i>,,Societatea este construit\u0103 din grupuri de oameni care lucreaz\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103,<\/i>\u00a0spune Ioana<i>. Nu trebuie s\u0103 te compari cu nimeni. \u00a0<\/i><\/span><i>Nu conteaz\u0103 dac\u0103 un grup str\u00e2nge gunoiul \u0219i un alt grup conduce sistemul judiciar. Totul este c\u0103 aceste grupuri s\u0103 lucreze \u00eempreun\u0103,,<\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><i><br \/>\n<\/i><\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Ai plecat din Rom\u00e2nia \u00een ultimul deceniu de comunism. \u00cen anii cei mai grei. Sper c\u0103 nu \u00ee\u0163i aminte\u015fti prea multe&#8230;Totu\u015fi?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>Ioana S\u0103l\u0103janu\u00a0<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Chiar vorbeam cu o prieten\u0103 \u015fi ea \u00eemi spunea c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 le dea o via\u021ba mai bun\u0103 copiilor ei. Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 eu pot spune asta. Eu am avut o copil\u0103rie frumoas\u0103 chiar dac\u0103 nu am avut ap\u0103, c\u0103ldur\u0103 \u0219i m\u00e2ncare \u00eentotdeauna. Dar \u0219tiam s\u0103 apreciem ceea ce aveam \u0219i ceea ce primeam. Lucru care nu prea se mai \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ast\u0103zi.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Oamenii erau aprecia\u021bi pentru ceea ce erau. Au fost \u00a0\u0219i lucruri bune \u0219i rele.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; \u00cencerci s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi educi copiii \u00een stilul acela?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS\u00a0<\/b>&#8211; Da. Eu m\u0103 axez foarte mult pe a le dezvolta imagina\u021bia, \u00eei \u00eencurajez s\u0103 se joace afar\u0103; s\u0103 renun\u0163e pe c\u00e2t posibil la jocurile electronice, la telefoanele mobile \u015fi s\u0103 alege. S\u0103 fac\u0103 sport. Am trei b\u0103ie\u021bi, Sebastian, Andrei \u0219i Alexandru. C\u00e2nd al\u0163i copii vin la noi s\u0103 se joace, electronicele sunt interzise. To\u0163i merg s\u0103 se joace afar\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-15253 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.curentul.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/11406464_10152967871483869_2454093272429664683_o-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"11406464_10152967871483869_2454093272429664683_o\" width=\"362\" height=\"362\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; \u015ei totu\u0219i la un moment dat, \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, nu a mai fost at\u00e2t de simplu.Tat\u0103l t\u0103u a fugit din \u021bara. Tu ai r\u0103mas acas\u0103 \u0219i ai devenit fiica de tr\u0103d\u0103tor \u00eentr-un sistem comunist care nu se d\u0103dea \u00eenapoi de la a pedepsi p\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i copiii r\u0103ma\u0219i acas\u0103. Copii care nu prea \u015ftiau ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, de fapt.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">\u00cemi spuneai c\u0103 una dintre cele mai nefericite zile din via\u021ba ta a fost c\u00e2nd \u021bi-au retras cravata de pionier.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS\u00a0<\/b>&#8211; Da, c\u00e2nd a fugit tata, mi-au luat cravata de pionier. A fost prima oar\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd am \u00een\u021beles ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 pierzi.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Eu chiar \u021bineam la cravata aceea. Eram m\u00e2ndr\u0103 de ea.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Din p\u0103cate, au \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 bat\u0103 zilnic. Nu am vrut s\u0103 m\u0103 mai duc la \u0219coal\u0103.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG\u00a0<\/b>&#8211; Ce \u00een\u021belegeai atunci din toate acestea?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; \u00cemi spuneau c\u0103 a\u0219a p\u0103\u021besc copiii tr\u0103d\u0103torilor de \u021bar\u0103.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">G\u00e2nde\u0219te-te c\u00e2t de important\u0103 este educa\u021bia \u00a0unui copil la v\u00e2rsta aceea. Cred c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd am ajuns \u00een State, dac\u0103 nu ar fi existat un \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103tor \u00a0care s\u0103-mi reconfirme \u00eencrederea \u00een sistemul educativ, nu \u0219tiu unde a\u015f fi ajuns.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; \u00cen anii foarte tineri ai \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat lucruri pe care nu ar fi trebuit s\u0103 le \u0219tii la v\u00e2rsta aceea. Copil fiind, este greu s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi de ce iei b\u0103taie de la oamenii pe care p\u00e2n\u0103 mai ieri \u00eei apreciai \u0219i respectai.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">\u015etiu c\u0103 ai o funda\u0163ie care s\u0103rb\u0103tore\u015fte Ziua Copilului aici \u00een State unde, ciudat, nu se s\u0103rb\u0103tore\u015fte a\u015fa cum ar trebui. \u00ce\u0163i aduci aminte de vreun 1 Iunie de acas\u0103?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Oh, da, ce serb\u0103ri&#8230;ce bucurii&#8230; C\u00e2t\u0103 aten\u021bie primeai&#8230;\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">De aceea am \u0219i f\u0103cut aceast\u0103 funda\u021bie.\u00a0<\/span>1Iunie nu exist\u0103 numai pentru distrac\u021bia copiilor. E un fel de reamintire a faptului c\u0103 pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i societatea cre\u015fte copilul.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211;\u00a0<i>\u00a0It takes a village<\/i>, cum spun americanii<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Funda\u021bia\u00a0<i>Children Interna\u0163ional<\/i>\u00a0organizeaz\u0103 diferite evenimente. \u00cen fiecare an alegem un subiect.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Anul trecut a fost \u00a0educa\u021bia. \u00a0Fiecare copil are dreptul la educa\u021bie. Am \u00eenfr\u0103\u021bit \u0219coli din Chicago cu \u0219coli din Rom\u00e2nia. \u00a0Inten\u021bia este dezvoltarea unor rela\u021bii pe termen lung.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Copiii din clasa a treia fac un schimb de scrisori mai \u00eent\u00e2i, apoi copiii din Rom\u00e2nia vin aici \u0219i \u00a0beneficiaz\u0103 de sistemul educa\u021bional american, de pu\u021bin\u0103 experien\u021b\u0103 american\u0103. Locuiesc zece zile la familii din Chicago. Iar copiii americani au deschidere spre o alt\u0103 cultur\u0103, spre o alt\u0103 societate.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG\u00a0<\/b>\u2013 Mam\u0103 singur\u0103,trei b\u0103ie\u0163i, avocat\u0103 : Ioana cum este via\u0163a unei femei singure \u00eentr-o lume nu demult predominat\u0103 de b\u0103rba\u0163i?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; foarte organizat\u0103(r\u00e2de). \u015ei dur\u0103. Trebuie s\u0103 fii \u0219i b\u0103rbat \u0219i femeie.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; \u0219i mam\u0103 \u0219i tat\u0103\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS\u00a0<\/b>&#8211; Cum \u021bi-am spus, am trei b\u0103ie\u021bi, care, din fericire sau nu, sunt foarte de\u0219tep\u021bi. I-am crescut foarte independen\u021bi.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Mi-a\u0219 crea autolimitari dac\u0103 a\u015f g\u00e2ndi c\u0103 lumea aceasta e dominat\u0103 de b\u0103rba\u021bi. Nu m\u0103 v\u0103d mai inferioar\u0103 sau mai superioar\u0103 dec\u00e2t ei. Merg \u00eenainte.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">To\u021bi oamenii au un rol \u00een societate \u0219i nu m\u0103 compar nici cu cei care sunt mai sus pe scara social\u0103 nici cu cei care sunt mai jos.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Am principiile \u0219i idealurile mele \u0219i nu sunt constr\u00e2ns\u0103 de no\u021biuni ca femeie, inferioar\u0103, imigrant\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-15254 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.curentul.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/15590217_10154317918298869_7064479958926144531_n-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"15590217_10154317918298869_7064479958926144531_n\" width=\"401\" height=\"301\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Exist\u0103 \u00een perioada aceasta o mi\u0219care feminist\u0103 intens\u0103 peste tot \u00een lume \u015fi pe bun\u0103 dreptate.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS\u00a0<\/b>&#8211; Da, \u00eens\u0103 etichetele pe mine m\u0103 limiteaz\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG\u00a0<\/b>&#8211; Pentru c\u0103 \u0219tii ce vrei \u0219i \u0219tii cine \u0219i ce e\u0219ti. Nu ai nevoie de confirm\u0103ri.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Etichetele ridic\u0103 bariere. Dac\u0103 ai o percep\u021bie, e bine s\u0103 mergi pe acea percep\u0163ie; nu te la\u0219i condus de anumite roluri \u0219i etichete sociale care sunt f\u0103cute s\u0103 te limiteze,,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG\u00a0<\/b>&#8211; Ioana, ce i-ai spune tu unei mame singure care, dup\u0103 divor\u0163, crede c\u0103 lumea s-a sfarsti?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; C\u0103 lumea nu s-a sf\u00e2r\u0219it.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Divor\u021bul \u00eenseamn\u0103 un alt fel de rela\u021bie, nu e condamnare la moarte. E vorba de percep\u021bie. \u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 fii victim\u0103, e\u0219ti victim\u0103. Oamenii sunt \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bi\u021bi \u00een dou\u0103 : oameni care v\u0103d probleme \u0219i oameni care v\u0103d solu\u021bii.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Nu e sf\u00e2r\u0219itul lumii p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu este \u00eentr-adev\u0103r sf\u00e2r\u0219itul lumii.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Spui \u00eentr-un interviu:\u00a0<i>Nu po\u0163i s\u0103 a\u015ftep\u0163i s\u0103 \u0163i se deschid\u0103 u\u015fa, ci tu trebuie s\u0103 o deschizi\u201c<\/i>. Seam\u0103n\u0103 izbitor cu rom\u00e2nescul ,,Dumnezeu \u00ee\u0163i d\u0103 dar nu \u00ee\u0163i bag\u0103 \u00een traist\u0103,, &#8211; Cum a fost drumul t\u0103u p\u00e2n\u0103 aici?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>IS<\/b><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">\u00a0&#8211; Nu a fost u\u0219or. Au fost zile grele \u0219i \u00een State la \u00eenceput. Dar tu trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi creezi oportunit\u0103\u021bile, trebuie s\u0103 deschizi u\u0219i, ba chiar \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eempingi pu\u021bin.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Oamenii de obicei sunt dezam\u0103gi\u021bi atunci c\u00e2nd nu le merge totul exact a\u0219a cum vor.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">E clar c\u0103 nu se poate s\u0103 fie \u00eentotdeauna exact a\u0219a cum vrei tu. Dar trebuie s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti o cale.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; \u00a0Chiar dac\u0103 drumul e mai lung, o cale exist\u0103,,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Nimic nu este imposibil. Este vorba de perspectiv\u0103,,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; De cum alegi s\u0103 prive\u0219ti lucrurile, nu?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; \u00a0Vezi tu, c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi moare cineva pl\u00e2ngi c\u0103 ai pierdut persoana respectiv\u0103. Suferi. E ok. Dar trebuie s\u0103 mergi mai departe.Trebuie s\u0103 fim recunosc\u0103tori c\u0103 am avut \u0219ansa s\u0103 cunoa\u0219tem persoana respectiv\u0103.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">S\u0103 fim recunosc\u0103tori pentru faptul \u00a0c\u0103 am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat ceva de la ea \u0219i c\u0103 via\u021ba ne-a fost \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bit\u0103 \u0219i \u00eenfrumuse\u021bat\u0103 \u00a0de prezen\u0163a acelei persoane. \u00centotdeauna \u00eencerc s\u0103 v\u0103d frumosul. \u00a0S\u0103 v\u0103d un bun \u00een fiecare r\u0103u.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">\u00ce<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">n fiecare sear\u0103, cu copiii, am ,,<i>the best part and the worst part of the day<\/i>,, St\u0103m de vorb\u0103 despre ceea a fost r\u0103u \u0219i despre ceea ce a fost cel mai bun \u00een ziua aceea.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Niciodat\u0103 nu i-am auzit s\u0103 spun\u0103 c\u0103 nu au avut un lucru bun din ziua care a trecut.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">\u00cei \u00eenv\u0103\u021b s\u0103 nu lase un lucrul r\u0103u care s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u00een ziua aceea s\u0103 strice lucrul cel bun.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Poate m-am maturizat mai repede dec\u00e2t necesar, poate am avut o via\u0163\u0103 grea, dar via\u021ba aceasta m-a adus aici.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-15256 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.curentul.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/23905631_2004943423108864_7750799828095489080_n-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"23905631_2004943423108864_7750799828095489080_n\" width=\"405\" height=\"304\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Copiii rom\u00e2ni \u0219i mai ales cei veni\u0163i foarte devreme aici, \u00een State, r\u0103m\u00e2n prin\u015fi \u00eentre dou\u0103 lumi, cea de acas\u0103 pe care o g\u0103sesc \u00een casa p\u0103rin\u0163ilor \u015fi a prietenilor acestora sau la \u00a0biserica din comunitate \u015fi cea \u00een care au fost educa\u021bi\/\u00eencadra\u021bi. Eu cred \u00a0c\u0103 educa\u0163ia primit\u0103 \u015fi experien\u0163a acumulat\u0103 din combina\u0163ia acestor dou\u0103 lumi este extrem de benefic\u0103.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Spune-mi cum a fost pentru tine?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Numai beneficii. Copiii mei sunt \u0219i cet\u0103\u021beni rom\u00e2ni. Vorbesc \u0219i scriu rom\u00e2ne\u0219te, ba i-am trimis \u0219i \u00een tab\u0103ra \u00een Rom\u00e2nia. Cel mare iube\u015fte fotbalul. \u00a0<\/span>De altfel, eu reprezint guvernul rom\u00e2n \u00eentr-un litigiu, mergem des \u00een \u0163ar\u0103, avem mul\u021bi prieteni. Unii \u00eenc\u0103 de pe vremea \u0219colii.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Ai plecat de la 9 ani \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 \u021bi-ai p\u0103strat rela\u021biile. Este un lucru de admirat.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; \u015etii, mul\u0163i probabil nu mai vor s\u0103 men\u0163in\u0103 rela\u0163iile vechi doar pentru faptul c\u0103 au avut de suferit. Nu este cazul meu. Chiar dac\u0103 nu am avut o via\u0163\u0103 prea grozav\u0103, mi-am p\u0103strat prietenii.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Corectitudinea, echilibrul, obiectivitatea sunt caracteristicile principale ale unui judec\u0103tor. Dar este greu s\u0103 ,,nu \u0163ii partea,, Cum rezolvi disputele dintre b\u0103ie\u0163ii t\u0103i? \u00cencerci s\u0103 fii corecta, echilibrat\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 g\u0103se\u015fti solu\u0163ia cea mai bun\u0103 sau mergi pe afec\u0163iune \u015fi\u00a0<i>feeling<\/i>\u00a0\u015fi, ca orice alt p\u0103rinte \u00a0mai spui din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd : ,,<i>las\u0103-l \u00een pace, a gre\u015fit, e cel mai mic<\/i>?,,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS\u00a0<\/b>&#8211; Da, normal. Am trei b\u0103ie\u021bi \u0219i dou\u0103 pisici \u0219i un c\u00e2ine. E nebunie total\u0103 la noi \u00een cas\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><strong>NIG<\/strong>\u00a0&#8211; Wow, mam\u0103 singur\u0103, trei b\u0103ie\u021bi, dou\u0103 pisici \u0219i un c\u00e2ine. \u0218i reu\u0219e\u0219ti s\u0103 fii ok. Nu cred c\u0103 cineva \u00ee\u0163i poate sta \u00eempotriv\u0103, doamn\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; (r\u00e2de) Nimeni nu e perfect. A\u0219 min\u0163i dac\u0103 a\u015f spune c\u0103 uneori nu strig. Copiii mei trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 c\u0103 \u0219i eu sunt om, c\u0103 \u0219i eu gre\u0219esc. \u0218tiu s\u0103 le fiu prieten\u0103, dar cu limite.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Da, este o linie fin\u0103 \u00eentre p\u0103rinte \u0219i prieten, linie pe care trebuie s\u0103 \u0219tii cum s\u0103 o p\u0103strezi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Nu este u\u015for. De multe ori nu \u0219tii unde e balan\u0163a. Dar g\u0103sim solu\u021bii \u00eempreun\u0103.Sunt trei b\u0103ie\u021bi cu trei personalit\u0103\u021bi diferite, cu nevoi diferite. \u00cei tratez diferit chiar dac\u0103 regulile sunt acelea\u0219i.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Stabilim priorit\u0103\u021bi.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Cred \u00eens\u0103 c\u0103 aten\u021bia pe care le-o dai copiilor \u0219i timpul calitativ pe care \u00eel petreci cu ei sunt dou\u0103 lucruri extrem de importante. \u00a0Un copil nu are nevoie de lucruri materiale. Cere, da, dar un copil echilibrat este acela care ob\u021bine aten\u021bie \u0219i timp \u00een primul r\u00e2nd.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Da. Timpul este cel mai pre\u021bios lucru pe care \u00eel putem oferi.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Ioana, m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 din punct de vedere financiar este mai indicat s\u0103 \u00a0r\u0103m\u00e2i avocat dec\u00e2t s\u0103 devii judec\u0103tor. Dar ce onoare&#8230;\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Dac\u0103 vei fi aleas\u0103, vei fi prima rom\u00e2nc\u0103 judec\u0103tor \u00een sistemul judiciar american \u00a0De ce vrei tu, Ioana Salajanu, s\u0103 devii judec\u0103tor?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b><i>\u00a0&#8211; (<\/i>r\u00e2z\u00e2nd<i>) D<\/i>a, mi s-a mai spus<i>\u00a0: ce e cu tine, \u021bi-ai pierdut min\u021bile,, de ce vrei s\u0103 fii public servant?,,<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; \u00a0Ai trece din sistemul privat \u00een sistemul serviciului public<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Da, dar cineva trebuie s\u0103 fac\u0103 asta. \u0218i \u0219tii&#8230;vreau&#8230; nu, nu sunt o femeie bogat\u0103, \u0219i nu am ce s\u0103 las copiilor mei \u00een afar\u0103 de ceea ce fac eu. \u0218i vreau s\u0103 dovedesc c\u0103 se poate s\u0103 reu\u015fe\u015fti , f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi abandonezi principiile.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 faci compromisuri majore?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">IS<\/b><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">\u00a0&#8211; Da, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i compromi\u0163i principiile.Vreau ca oamenii, nu numai imigran\u021bii ci to\u0163i aceia care nu au o anumit\u0103 pozi\u021bie bine stabilit\u0103 \u00een \u00a0societate sau aceia care nu se \u00eencadreaz\u0103 \u00eentr-un \u00a0anumit\u00a0<\/span><i style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">tax\u00a0<\/i><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><i>bracket<\/i>\u00a0<\/span><i style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">(adic\u0103 nu au salarii semnificative &#8211; nota reporterulu<\/i><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">i),s\u0103 aib\u0103 o voce.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">Etniile din Europa de Est nu sunt auzite doar pentru faptul c\u0103 nu vorbesc. Ca rom\u00e2ni nu prea exist\u0103m. Vreau s\u0103 le spun c\u0103 aici este o femeie din Rom\u00e2nia care merge \u00eenainte c\u0103ut\u00e2nd o cale s\u0103 p\u0103trund\u0103 \u00een sistem.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; \u00a0\u00cemi spuneai \u00eentr-una din discu\u021biile noastre c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 fii judec\u0103tor \u0219i pentru c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 dai \u00eenapoi, la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u, celor care \u021bi-au oferit at\u00e2t de mult \u00een \u0163ara aceasta,,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS\u00a0<\/b>&#8211; Ca judec\u0103tor, c\u00e2nd sunt pe\u00a0<i>bench<\/i>\u00a0nu pot dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eemi fac treaba a\u0219a cum trebuie, s\u0103 fiu cinstit\u0103 \u0219i impar\u021bial\u0103.\u00a0<\/span>Vreau s\u0103 ar\u0103t c\u0103 se poate s\u0103 intri \u00eentr-un sistem \u00een care se spune c\u0103 nu po\u021bi p\u0103trunde.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-15257 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.curentul.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/25394707_2016460861957120_7081639524582052979_o-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"25394707_2016460861957120_7081639524582052979_o\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; \u00a0Eu cred c\u0103, aici, dac\u0103 demonstrezi c\u0103 e\u0219ti \u00een stare, dac\u0103 \u0219tii s\u0103 te faci v\u0103zut, cunoscut \u0219i \u00een\u021beles, sistemul devine destul de accesibil. Ai fost aleas\u0103 acum c\u00e2teva zile \u00een ballot. Deci ai trecut de o faz\u0103. Aveai nevoie de 3000 de voturi ai str\u00e2ns 11.000.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\">De ce ai nevoie pentru a c\u00e2\u015ftiga?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; De sus\u021binere.Din partea tuturor. Am nevoie de voluntari care \u00a0s\u0103 ajute cu campania, de dona\u021bii.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15262\" src=\"http:\/\/www.curentul.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/27540036_1834456669920042_8028081709269411870_n-165x300.jpg\" alt=\"27540036_1834456669920042_8028081709269411870_n\" width=\"278\" height=\"505\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Petrecere pentru st\u00e2ngere de fonduri, Chicago,\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Ioana S\u0103l\u0103janu, Laura Bretan, photo Alina Cri\u0219an-Bretan<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Este de fapt campanie electoral\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS<\/b>&#8211; Da, este o campanie electoral\u0103 care se desf\u0103\u015foar\u0103 pe un teritoriu mare. Avem nevoie de sus\u021binere financiar\u0103 \u0219i apoi avem nevoie de voturi \u00een 20 martie 2018.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>NIG<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; Ioana S\u0103l\u0103janu, \u00eeti urez succes. Noi rom\u00e2nii, suntem foarte m\u00e2ndri de tine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif;\"><b>IS\u00a0<\/b>&#8211; Mul\u021bumesc<b>!<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>un interviu realizat de Nu\u021ba Istrate Gangan &#8211; Florida<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-15252 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.curentul.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/25594356_2019163825020157_2207413913554018700_n-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"25594356_2019163825020157_2207413913554018700_n\" width=\"532\" height=\"354\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span st...\n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5,14,42],"tags":[],"coauthors":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4rsGx-Bz","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2329"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2329"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2329\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2331,"href":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2329\/revisions\/2331"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2329"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2329"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2329"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.nymagazin.com\/en_US\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=2329"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}